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Feminism Vs physiology

This Writing is dedicated for Woman.

I was intrigued by Imelda's Blog She is writing about why man so and so and woman so and so.

She hate when Man put a woman as an object or accessories...or anything that makes woman are a weak being.(speaking in this paternity world).

I'm not saying i was against feminism, no i'm not.

I was trying to give another perspective on that matter in a science point of view.

Is it really man put woman in the object spot ? Or it just woman feeling...or thinking ?

In my previous attempt to understand woman (heaven yeah, can't live with them - can't live without them), I'm writing how hormone can invoke a mental and emotional instability.

Recently when i'm in the bus i sit next to a teacher in psychology and she said that Physiology (especially nerve system) really could affect Psychological behaviour.

Now,i manage to search that woman have a more nerve (literally) than man.You can read it in this link.

Also, woman have to experience more pain than man,despite that their body is designed for more extreme cause (Pregnancy,menstruation and maternity).

If we look at our socio education system you can see that we treat girls more protectively than boys.When they take a bath a boy can run naked,while a girl must cover her body with a towel.Thus,internalize, that woman need more protection (cover) than man.

Woman also tend to take care more of their body than man, and when the man do the same we call them sissy or cupcake or anything that insult man behaving like a woman.God created man with face and skin too you know and it's also irreplacible.

So, man tend to look woman as something to make his life beautiful,thus, accessories for life.

Again, i'm not against feminism or anything,but i just want to make clear that changes can be done colectively by showing to the man that woman can be as tough and ignorance and wild and strong and anything that man do.But i don't think it's quite possible cause in term of action woman tend to fond at one side of the spectrum,the weak and need to protect side.

Try to judge evently on this matter...are you doing what a man did ?so you can have all the right of man?or just a woman responsibility but both gender rights ?It is a paternity world,but if we decide to be as equal as any other being we must (collectively) show them that we mean bussiness.That we don't need man to open the door for us, to cover our shoulder when it's cold or rain, to walk the dark street, to lift up a heavy stuff...etc....anymore.

Face it, you can have all the man clothing and still be called woman.You can do anything what man does but still can be called woman.Aren't you get enough of that already ?

Be as you wanna be, do what you like and please be proud as a woman.For there is nothing diffrent between man and woman (in my eyes) except for the Physiology fact.

-= If you wanna make the world a better place take a look at yourself than make a change =- Michael Jackson "Man in the mirror"

Teman yang sangat saudara

Tanggal 22 Oktober 2005,

Dear Blog,

Sangat Suprise banget hari ini gue kedatangan 2 orang yang gue sayang.Sukmo (Kakak angkat) dan Febby istrinya.Mereka tinggal di Sragen jawa tengah,jauh2 ke Jakarta mau ngeliat Sea World (Kirain ngeliat gue) dan sowan ke tempat gue heheehheheh....thus kita akhirnya dinner bareng di Gandy Menteng.

Memang rasanya sangat berbeda bila kita berada dengan orang2 yang dekat di hati, very2 comfortable...kita bercanda, tertawa dan bercerita.

Jadi inget pesan ibu Theresa,"Bila kamu bertemu dengan seseorang, buatlah orang itu pulang dengan membawa kesan bahwa dia telah bertemu dengan Tuhan".

Ketika gue pulang, gue seperti habis ketemu dengan Tuhan...one of the best weekend in my life.

Gue orang yang jarang mengungkapkan perasaan dan pikiran gue kepada orang lain (lah blog ini apaan yah ???).Well,the deepest feeling..my thought about my personal life,what's going on lately...

Gue bisa ngobrol dan mencurahkan itu semua kemaren...mereka a good listener.Also a good teacher,supporter,cheerer and bearer.

The good news behind the good news adalah Febby udah hamil 4 bulan wuiiiihhh gue bakalan jadi Paman ehehehehehehhe...again.

Merekapun melontarkan pertanyaan yang ...disturbing ..."elo kapan ?" beu....

As i tell them the reason....(ahh....the old reason...)they try to understand it beyond reasonable doubt.

I rarely feel that confort as that night.

The memory i have to save in this blog.

When everything fails...try love...it work on me.

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Gambarnya kaga ada guenya...hahahahahah....kebiasaan...setiap moment special yang gue abadikan pasti kaga ada guenya...karena megang tustel kakakkakakakak...fiuhhh...

What a lovely weekend.

"Good friend is like a good Bra , nyaman , fleksible , bisa menahan beban / goncangan dan Tahan Lama" -= Kaga tau siapa..tapi sukmo yang pernah bilang ke gue =-

BUKA BERSAMA

Di kantor gue lagi ada acara buka bersama anak Yatim.

Mulai jam 4 tadi terdengar bunyi nasyid dari speaker sewaan.

Anak2 nya lucu2 loh...

kantor gue ternyata lumayan "bergerak" juga yah...

Walaupun gue tidak diundang....ataupun ikutan...tapi makanannya asik bo..hihihihihi...ada sisa ga yah ? *Scavenger mode : on*

Seneng juga sih ada acara kaya gini, di kantor sekarang ini lagi banyak preasure, ada acara kaya gini bikin kita lengang dikit.

Sekali kali denger2 lagu begini...tenang juga hati (walaupun agama tidak sama,tapi di dalam seni...feelingnya tetep sama)

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I'm Not Sorry

Iswandi (31) tak menyesal telah membakar kantornya PT Panca Kusuma di Kompleks Pertokoan Harmoni No A-15 di Jalan Suryopranoto, Jakarta Pusat. Pembakaran ruko berlantai empat pada Senin (17/10) siang itu mengakibatkan tiga karyawan tewas. http://www.kompas.com/metro/news/0510/19/091529.htm

Forgiveness is something that we cannot have it easily this days.People trying to hurt others neither they realize it or not.Sometimes we care nothing for any action we make or any words we said to others.

"Please stop before you feel sorry about anything you said" -=You've got mail=-

Living in this fast pace world of information we could not control any longer all the things we know or hear or watch or see....things just keep coming and going really fast.

Sometimes the abuse of our tools God create us to gather information is just as normal as sunrise.

How many hours we have to look at email,commercials and newspaper ?

How many hour we have to hear things that we shouldn't or don't want to hear ?

Input must determine the output more or less.When i study computer programming i learn GIGO (Garbage in ,Garbage Out).What comes in will eventually comes out.

If you put something positive in the system,then it will (hopefully) comes a positive result.

But if you put something negative in the system,soon or latter the negative will find a way to come out.

Choose your input !!

If there is any option you have to make everyday...choose positive.Stop reading,hearing,seeing,watching negative news...it won't kill you..but it will get you killed someday.Start yearning for positive input.

Ugh head...ouch...ouch....positive.....positive.......

M n M (Makassar n Manado)

Beginilah kalau kita jalan2 dibayarin sama kantor.

Dibawah ini hasil laporan yang harus gue bikin setelah gue puas jalan jalan (Kerja) di Makassar dan di Manado.

Beberapa bagian harus diedit karena rahasia perusahaan.

Dear Pak XXXX,

Dibawah ini laporan saya selama perjalanan Makassar dan Manado

*MAKASSAR*

- Homebase Makassar yang baru sangat luas untuk di tempati.(Foto menyusul).

- Kartu Stock di Warehouse Antang sudah berjalan rapih, Terjadi peminjaman material Indosat untuk beberapa site Exelcom.Pencatatan sudah dilakukan tinggal menunggu ops menggantikan barang2 tersebut sebelum indosat membutuhkannya (Cek list berupa hard copy).

- Barang ME yang ada di warehouse Antang akan di pindahkan ke homebase baru untuk memudahkan pengawasan, sementara material tower dan shelter (material besar) akan tetap ditaruh di Antang.

- Besi beton Exelcom sangat banyak ada di antang, mungkin butuh perhatian khusus dan kejelasan ingin diapakan besi beton tersebut (apakah terpakai lagi untuk site Exel baru?).

- Kendala2 yang muncul di homebase Makassar :

a. Tidak ada air (pompa air/PAM tidak berfungsi ditambah dengan musim kering yang panjang)

b. Listrik PLN tidak stabil dan berdaya rendah hanya + - 900 Watt.Usulan : Butuh tambah daya dan UPS untuk bisa mencegah kerusakan barang2 elektronik.

c. Tidak ada jaringan telepon, sedang diusahakan oleh samsir untuk instalasi.Bila belum bisa di sarankan menggunakan Flexy.Kendala flexi adalah tidak bisa Fax.

d. Tempat masih sepi penghuni, Para supervisi belum mau tinggal di homebase dikeranakan kendala2 diatas, dan keadaan keuangan mereka yang memprihatinkan menyebabkan mereka dikejar2 orang exel makassar dan pekerja2 site.

e. Peralatan Kantor (ATK) dan komputer harus diadakan untuk homebase (stelah listrik di tambah dan stabil).Komputer yang ada adalah milik pribadi salmon, itupun mengalami kerusakan hardisk akibat tidak stabilnya listrik.

- Komputer yang di kirimkan ke Samsir tidak bisa dipakai lagi (scrap).Total dibutuhkan komputer minimal 2 unit untuk pembuatan laporan dan data supervisi, 1 unit khusus untuk administrasi warehouse.Pengadaan UPS mutlak harus ada apabila tidak ingin terjadi Kerusakan seperti harddisk salmon.Jenis komputer yang saya usulkan tidak perlu dengan spesifikasi tinggi.(harga @ 2,5 - 3 jutaan sudah cukup untuk menyimpan data,mengetik dan membuat laporan)

- Pending pekerjaan Exel: Campalagian , Tanjung Bunga (sudah online, tidak ada grounding padahal di pinggir laut dan sebentar lagi musim hujan),belopa,Duria teko,osubegolua. Prakiraan Closing: 2 minggu.

*MANADO*

- Kontrak perpanjangan Homebase Manado sudah ditandatangani.

- Homebase membutuhkan 1 unit Komputer untuk proses administrasi, menyimpan data dan pelaporan.

- Material2 project untuk indoor bisa langsung di proses (scrap atau di kembalikan ke DSK Jakarta):

a. Pipa Clipsal 8 batang

b. Cable tray 3 batang

c. Box panel 1 Unit.

d. Material lain (masih di packing) 4 koli.

- Material sisa Tower dan anchor untuk site Tondok menunggu konfirmasi pihak ops( Mau dipakai atau di Jual).Gambar terlampir:

a. Cable Tray outdoor : 7 batang

b. Plat bordes : 4 Batang

c. Sepatu Tower : 4 Unit

d. Material Tower + Brazing : + - 100 Batang

e. Setting template 5 meter : 4 Batang

f. Plat tower : + - 40 batang

g. Anchor M 30 : 32 Batang

h. Pagar BRC 90 cm (Exel) : 27 lembar

i. U Bolt Exel : 12 Batang j. Mounting (harus dikembalikan ke exel)

- Material ME menurut laporan supervisi sering terjadi kekurangan (tidak sesuai dengan tulisan di checklist atau di packing).

- Pending pekerjaan Exelcom : Gn Ompu XL 2004 (silth rock,paving,pagar),Tanete,Suwawa.Prakiraan Closing: 2 minggu.

- Pending Pekerjaan Siemens : Kota Mubago kurang lampu taman,semen,gembok CISA dan batu paving, Sangir talaud butuh lampu Taman, Gembok Cisa, Manganitu butuh lampu taman dan gembok CISA.

Demikian saya sampaikan laporan saya,

Sondi

Manado

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F**K YOU !

Intrigue by my friends Wira's Blog i would try to expand the topics in a quite a serious way.

Many of us ever heard our parents cursing at something unintentionally or not.

We heard that on TV, even the show for kids have a cursing dialogue in the schene.

No wonder a 3-4 years old kids could lauch a full scale language attack on everybody.

In the other hands we (as an adult) never like to hear them saying all those things they shouldn't say.But,our society always try to deny that we as a person is the one who took the responsible in educating our young one.

They could blame others if they heard a younglings saying a nasty curse, their parents, their teacher,their neighbours...but they never blame themself for helping it happen.

Is it really hard not to say a cursing words (or another nasty words) for just one day ? i done that once...it is hard, it's getting easier as the days go by.I use to punish myself if i say something nasty by having a 5 times push up per words spoken.At the first day i broke up a record by 80 push ups...but in the sixth days i only do 15 push ups.Is it really that simple ? it is if we have a will to do it.

Life isn't always go as you plans, also the behavior of the people around you.But you can always control your temper, emotion and any words that come from your mouth.

Ramadhan is always a month of blessing...are you up to take the challenge ?

-= It is your choice to be happy or to be Grumpy everyday =- NN

Twisted Logic

Konon, disebuah Klinik Bersalin, tiga calon bapak menunggu istrinya melahirkan.
Sedang asyik mereka berbincang, dokter muncul dari kamar bersalin dan menghampiri mereka sambil berkata :
"Pak Anto, selamat ya, istri bapak melahirkan anak kembar Dua"
"Matur Nuwun dok, jumlahnya cocok dengan tempat saya bekerja, pabrik kacang dua kelenci." jawab Pak Anto bangga.

Berikut, pak Dokter menghampiri Pak Cecep : "Pak Cecep, selamat ya, istri
bapak melahirkan kembar tiga"
"Makasih, dokter, gue bilang juga ape, kerje di pabrik mobil Tige Berlian"
komentar Pak Cecep dengan logat Betawinya.

Giliran sang dokter menghampiri Pak Slamet, tiba tiba Pak Slamet pingsan.
Dokter dan perawat seantero rumah bersalin kalang kabut memberikan pertolongan darurat.
Setelah siuman, sang dokter bertanya: "Ada apa Pak Slamet?, kok tiba-tiba pingsan. Tenang sajalah. Ndak apa-apa.
Istri melahirkan itu kan biasa.Mestinya Bapak bersyukur karena istri bapak juga telah melahirkan dengan selamat."

Dengan memelas Pak Slamet berkata: "Adddduuuuhh dok, yung biyung!. Apa anak saya juga kembar, ta?"
"Kalau kembar kenapa?" tanya sang dokter tak mengerti.

Sambil memegang erat erat tangan sang dokter, Pak Slamet berkata:
"Itu tadi Dok, Pak Anto bekerja di kacang dua kelinci, istrinya melahirkan kembar dua.
Pak Cecep kerja di Tiga berlian, dapat kembar tiga.

Lhaaa... saya gimanaaaa, pak dokterrrrr biyung biyung........????? Saya satpam di Auto 2000.......!!!!!!

Sometimes we like to use twisted logic,my friend tell me there is two kind of logic, truth logic and twisted logic.

There is enough example of twisted logic like one of the jokes above.

So,better make sure you are not using a twisted logic.