Not so daily thinker

Ten Commandment of Marriage

Commandment 1

Marriages are made in heaven. But so are thunder and lightning.

So they say that marriage is the same substance as thunder and lightning.As a matter of fact maybe it is.All the shouting and banging in the room must prove that it is.

Commandment 2

If you want your wife to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say; talk in your sleep.

Listening skill will be our greatest asset to live a happy marriage for man Because woman just cannot do the same *Grin*

Commandment 3

Marriage is grand -- and divorce is at least 100 grand!

It's not in our country that divorce is so expensive (except if you are a celebrities).Some of the man just dissapear without a trace.If the wive is not disturb by missing a man figure than it will be an easy walk out.

Commandment 4

Married life is very frustrating. In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens. In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.

See, it's a listening thingy again.I guess i better shape up my ear if i want to get a successful marriage.Why always be the talks ?

Commandment 5

When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing: Either the car is new or the wife is.

It's the lack of sensitivity in man, but hey you married them for you have somebody to hang with.^_^

Commandment 6

Marriage is when a man and woman become as one. The trouble starts when they try to decide which one.

When you try to love other by your own image, the disaster will also peek to play.

Commandment 7

Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you say. After marriage, he will fall asleep before you finish.

Again another listening thingy....Learn !

Commandment 8

Every man wants a wife who is beautiful, understanding, economical, and a good cook. But the law allows only one wife.

Why don't you woman have all the attribute ? Maybe the man is just too blind when they ask her to marry them ?

Commandment 9

Marriage and love are purely matter of chemistry. That is why wives treat husbands like toxic waste.

Sick Truth, But with a lot of money you (man) could also be a nice add on in the house of her own.*sigh*

Commandment 10

A man is incomplete until he is married. After that, he is finished.

Marriage seems a big demise for man.That's why God made more woman than man.So man can have what they deserve (to blame eve at the first place)

Commandment 11

A good wive is a deaf wive, a good husband is a blind husband.

Nahhh...i just make that up !

When is the right time ?

When is the right time

I talk to you a thousand words

Share with you a hundred laughter

Give you a couple of smile

When is the right time ?

I Think of you every hour

Call you everyday

Meet you every week

When is the right time ?

You smile at me when i smile

You talk to me when i talk

You share your feeling as i share mine

When is the right time ?

If we have a chance to meet

A Story to make

A destiny to call

A life to fulfill

When is the right time ?

You give a chance for me to be close to you

So close that i could smell your scent

So tender so i can see your tears

When is the right time ?

Why i could talk with you for hours ?

Why i could share with you a good time ?

Why you let me into your life, but

When is the right time ?

To whom it may concern, for once....why don't you missing me ?

Miss Interpretation

Once upon a time in the galaxy far far away.

There life one naif man that think about a foto model job is "not so right in ethic and moral field".The man continue to search (not as often as you could imagine) for a new paradigm about that kind of job.

One day i stumble at a new blog i find in magazine.It's belong to a model which curently quite famous in Indonesia because of her professionalism and braveness to shoot a nude pose in PLAYBOY Magazine (Please pardon my description of you).

I read Tiara Lestari's personal Blog

In one of her Blog She write about her attitude toward a man that spread a despicable rumors about their relationship.

So the naif man learn something about a person and a job.It's not what job you have ,it's about your attitude as a person who live the job that matter.

Tiara also write about all things like what she things about love and soul mate.Oh yeah that soul mate thingy seems to keep popping up in the place you never least expected.

How could a beautiful model like her that can attract all the man i can think of, still talking about fouding a soul mate of her own.

The hardest things to erase from that naif man is the paradigm about how a nude model behave ,feels and not so brainy attitude.

Tiara prove that she have a very sensitive side and not to mention quite analitical skill.

IMPRESIVE

She can prove to me that she is just an ordinary woman.Who talk about man and dream and life just like all my woman friends use to talk.

She also prove to me that it's not what you do, it's about what you are.

I'm so litteraly and intelectually apologize for the things i thought about the like of hers.

-= The most of human invention is just the change of their thinking =-

Dying inside

Dying Inside To Hold You
Timmy Thomas ( Album : Unknown )

It's turning out just another day
I took a shower and I went on my way
I stopped there as usual
had a coffee and pie
when i turned to leave
i couldn't believe my eyes

standing there i didn't know what to say
without one touch
we stood there face to face

Chorus
(And) i was dying indside to hold you
i couldn't believe what i felt for you
dying inside i was dying inside
but i couldn't bring myself to touch you

you said hello then u asked my name
i didn't know if i should go all the way
inside i felt my life have really changed
i knew that it would never be the same

standing there i didn't know what to say
first time looked away when i whispered your name

Chorus 2x

one hello changed my life
i didn't believe in love at first sight
but you've shown me what is life
and I now i know my love (i know it's coming right)

This song reminds me of my teenage love urges ^_^ or something that sound like it.A song that really familiar and not to mention a major hit back then.

My first big CRUSH on a girl i know i couldn't have.It was really dyin inside.

But still the memory lingers on when i heard this song...one of my all times favorite.

Life is so simple back then, but hey...we have the past so we can treasure it right ? As i treasure a naif love feeling back then, i must have learn something.Because as i watch her now...now i know that it was for the best of her.

Being easy to fall in love *sigh* i learn to hold and control myself...so many feeling are left unspoken but a lot of song makes me remember all that lovely feeling, tangy and sweet feeling of fall in love.

Ahhh.....it' for the best of my life story.

It was then.....and now i know the meaning of holding back.

"Sometimes you have to back a bit to pick up a pace, We hold you like a sling shot"  -= Anonimous=-